This message is for my super mums who are battling with the guilt of pursuing their first love, (passion), their children and family.
May I say that you are doing yourself a disservice by denying that love that breathes love.
If you are not giving yourself the opportunity to embrace that which was specially assigned to you before those extra blessings came along, you will not be fully happy with yourself.
I hear some mothers saying, I have it all, I have my kids who complete me, and a partner who gives me life.
This statement is so wrong, you are in denial. A) your kids don't complete you, and b) your partner does not give you life.
What you are seeking in others lies inside of you. And no matter how many excuses you make, you can never be 100% happy knowing that you sacrificed your passion.
You might be okay now, but in future, you will start resenting those kids who are your future or the partner who completes you.
The sad thing is when those things we hold onto come and go, what do you then have to hold on to that will bring you joy?
As a mother of a teenager who is growing into a Queen, the greatest blessing I have given my daughter and myself asides from love is that she gets to see me pursue that which lights my soul.
When she sees her mother enjoying her passionate affair with her mastery, it encourages her to have her own relentless passionate affair with her own talents.
I don't want to blame my child for my own decisions that's costs me my happiness.
Happy mothers raise happy children. Happy wives make joyful partners.
So, what's that thing you've been dying to bring to light?
Is it a book your been secretly doodling?
A programme that will act as an educating platform that will enrich others seeking to learn?
Is it a dog training guide, is it a podcast?
Whatever your heart and soul is yearning for, it's not too late to start.
One of my favourite motivational speaker Mr @thelesbrown once asked; "where is the richest place on earth?” his response was the graveyard. All dreams died because people were too scared to start.
Let your passion out while it's still screaming. Any talent that you don't use becomes a burden.